9 to 5 Valentine

Over the Moon asked me to pull some festive-yet-office-appropriate looks for the upcoming holiday, since the majority of us (myself included) will be spending most of next Wednesday on the clock. Is there a better way to spend Lov-ahs Day than showing off how much you love the holiday, yourself, and your co-workers with some on-theme attire? Sure there is - but we'll save that part for when we leave the office. 

Stone Heart Earrings - Addison Weeks// Rose Top - Zara// Pink & Red Bag - Zara// Heart Heels - Zara

Denim For Days

I have a distinct memory from fall of 2007: the setting is the first year dorms at the University of Virginia and center stage is my father, new to the dropping-daughter off at college thing, offering to help with the move-in/unpacking fandango. He is sweating (no air conditioning - tradition is kept alive at dear ole' UVA!) and appears bewildered as he pulls pair after pair of jeans out of a suitcase. He reaches a point of exasperation, at which he exclaims "how many pairs of jeans do you own?!" (that's the PG-version). From stage left enters the rest of my family (mom & sisters), who basically give him a few "where have you been this whole time, George?" lines. The scene ends, with the narrator's closing: "And that was the first and only time our protagonist helped move any of his daughters to college."

The girl (me) loves her denim. So when a friend recently asked me to style some casual, jean-friendly looks that could easily be incorporated in a day-to-day wardrobe, I thought genius! And then I thought, maybe I need another pair of jeans...  

Pink Blazer - Zara// Disc Earrings - Mercedes Salazar// Tassel Earrings - Hart Hagerty// Fox Scarf - Sabina Savage// Suede Bag - Clare V.// Flower Tassel Earrings - Mercedes Salazar

Valentine's Contemplations: Be the Shoebox

Anyone remember the elementary school assignment of bringing in a shoebox that you would then decorate to be a Valentine's mailbox? It was a pink and red and glitter-fied receptacle of sugar, and I loved it. I'm not sure if this tradition still continues in today's no-holiday-is-politically-correct environment, but I hope it does.

As an adult, Valentine's Day can be an eyeroll-inducing holiday and it feels like you're titter-tottering between the pricey prix fixe dinner ending with a lame dessert with hearts on it and surrounded by cheesy couples that leave you (terrified) asking "are we one of them?" thing and the let's just blow this lame holiday off and not do gifts this year because love is the opposite of buying into this commercialized forced romance thing. Both extremes are, simply put, the worst

Which leads me to my suggestion, which obviously aligns with the maxim of leave no holiday behind. There is a magic to Valentine's Day - it's the awe and wonder and giddiness you remember feeling as a child when your classmates would drop candy and Eckerds-bought Valentine's Day cards into the shoebox you poured your blood, sweat, and glitter tears into. Bring back that magic by becoming the shoebox. In other words, dear reader, be pink and red and glitter-fied (by dressing as such) and consume all the sugar and love your heart desires. Today's post gets you halfway there - the rest of operation celebrate-love-in-a-hopeless-place is up to you

Be Mine Earrings - Jennifer Loiselle// Heart Pillow - Charmajesty// XO Heels - Katy Perry// Heart Crossbody Bag - Ann Mashburn// Love Beaded Bag - Moyna// Hearts Beaded Bag - Moyna

Technicolored Dream Coats

Over the Moon asked me to find some fun, funky, fabulous, fur/faux coats, and these were the chosen ones. Because sometimes the only way to get jazzed up about it still being really frio outside is to leave the black/grey puffer at home and jazz up your coat game. Bonus points for most of these being on sale, so that we preempt winter 2018 #earlybirdgetstheoutwearworm, right? Right! 

Chambray Embroidered Coat - Alix of Bohemia

Basic Invite: Signed, Sealed & Styled, I'm Yours

Is it just me, or does it feel like there are weddings, bridal showers, baby showers, birthday parties, engagement parties, and the like every other weekend? I will answer that - it isn't just me (because if it was, the guest list would just be me and my imaginary friends). I love celebrating anything, so each snail mail invitation sent to my door is received with a happy leprechaun-type jig before being pinned to a bulletin board, where it enjoys its time in the sun and makes paper friends until its bell tolls.

Which leads me to Basic Invite, my newly discovered/favorite online stationary company. There are so many e-vite type websites, but Basic Invite is the only one that lets you truly customize your paper design. It's perfect for those (like moi) who obsess over each and every detail, since the website allows you to change the color of each element on the card to over 180 different color options. No, 180 is not a typo. Combine that with the ability to order a printed sample of the actual invitation before placing an order and to choose between 40 different envelope colors, and I am signed, sealed, delivered (pun intended). 

Although the hours I would have spent customizing every little part of any invitation would certainly have been many, I wish I knew Basic Invite was around while I was planning my wedding since it addresses two of my all time greatest pet-peeves when it came to my bride-to-be paper trail: finding addresses and licking envelopes. Not only does the website offer an address capturing service that allows users to simply share a link on any other form of social media to request addresses which are then stored in the customer’s account and selected during the design process, but their envelope options are peal and seal. Peal and seal, people! 

From casual birthday parties to more fancier shindigs to personalized stationary, Basic Invite offers it all, according to your taste (see below for a sample and discount!). Which means for all the aforementioned events, I will happily style it all, according to my taste (and yours too, hopefully, lolz). Hence today's post, which presents some outfit options to wear to baby showers, bridal showers, birthday parties, engagement fiestas, etc. In closing, words by Robert Earl Keen come to mind: the options on Basic Invite go on forever, and the party outfits never end. 

Turquoise Flower Earrings - Sylvia Toledano

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